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One of the customs in a chinese wedding is to test the patience of the Groom and his brothers before they can get the bride. The games might be childish, violent and disgusted, but its often the highlights in most of the Chinese Weddings. For my sister’s wedding, I organised a series of games for the Groom. Actually we can come out with more games, however the eldery said we have only 30 mins for the games.

1. Before the game starts, I wrote an agreement and asked the groom’s gang to read it out loud follow by the groom’s signature. The agreement said: “We, the Groom Brothers, agreed to play and follow all the games’ rules that are prepared by the Bride’s Sisters. Or else, we will use Wasabi as toothpaste to brush our teeth” We have to do this strict because most of the time they will break the rules. 准备一个合约,进门前,先叫兄弟们大声读,后新郎签个名。合约内容:”我们兄弟同意遵守新娘姐妹们安排的一切游戏规则,否则我们将用Wasabi来刷牙。”

2. 虎虎生威:I have a hula hoop placed at the door, all of them include the groom must roar loudly and jump into the hula hoop to get in to the house. 新郎及兄弟们必须虎叫一声才跳进顶在门口的呼拉圈。

3. 神秘宝箱:put a wig, a g string, a bra, a sexy lingerie and few stones into a box with a hole. Shake the box and ask the groom if he is scared of rodent. When he put his hand into the box, he will feel something hairy and he has no idea what’s in it. get him to take things out one by one and wear it.  准备一个有个小洞的箱子,把假发,丁字裤,内衣,性感睡衣和几粒石子放净箱里。先摇摇箱子再问新郎怕不怕老鼠。 当他升手进箱里摸一摸,他会很怕的,因为有毛毛的,也有软软的,还有石头的声音。叫他一样一样拿出来,穿上身上,让大家笑一笑。

4. 大肚婆的心声:get few pair of guys, for each pair, one of them standing up and one of them squatting down. The guy who is squatting down put a balloon into his partner shirt and blow up the balloon. Blow until the shirt of the standing guy is fit and tight. and tie the knob. Then the standing guy with the big balloon should do sit up for 9times. the meaning behind is for them to understand how difficult it is to be a pregnant woman. 把兄弟分成几对。一个站着,一个蹲着。 蹲着的那个要在站着的衣服底下吹气球。吹到衣服紧了, 再绑个结。站着的那个要躺下来做9 次Sit-up。

5. 解冰开门:freeze few room keys in ice. at least 3 keys, with one of them is the bride room’s key. get the brothers to use their mouth to melt the ice and get the key out to open the room. this seems to be easy, but it often make the guy’s shirt all wet. 将新娘房门锁匙及其他房门锁匙加水做成冰块。 叫兄弟用嘴巴解溶,取出锁匙开房门。兄弟全身包湿完。

 Other Tips:

1. 吃屎:Make a banana boat in a portable toilet ball, and get them to eat it. Remember chocolate ice cream and bananas.. 把巧克力雪糕及香蕉放进小马桶里给兄弟们享用。

2. 冰里寻法: put a bunch of keys into a bucket of ice+water. Get them to find the right key to open the door. This is not an easy task, your hand will be misfunction very soon. 把一大堆锁匙丢进冰桶里,加水。叫兄弟找锁匙开门。这个不简单。手很快就麻了。

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2月24日,是一个大喜日子。姐姐嫁人了。

从小到大,姐姐是我最亲密的人了,我们没什么不谈。小时候连屁股痒也要通知对方。

从那天,她嫁给了姐夫。大家都哭了。。。 爸妈哭好正常,3妹哭也是没什么意外的事。外婆连外公去世都没哭,她那天边说话边哭。她说姐姐是家里的宝。 二舅也哭了,他说要常回来多看父母。二舅从小就很关心我们,常常默默地关心我们的动态,常跟妈妈打听我们的消息。那天才发觉四舅习惯叫姐姐“XinXin”,而不是[XingXing], 四舅也红了眼。浓姨丈说我们三姐妹都是他们抱大的。华姨说她当姐姐是妹妹,还叮咛夫妻俩最重要的是体贴。

转个头,发现最大只的豪豪表弟也流泪了。。。

大家都拥抱大姐夫,我告诉他,以后就叫我“妹妹”- 我们是一家人了。。。

Angela’s flower

婚礼后,姐姐递给我她的手花。。。 我们没多说。 我就想起那天我告诉姐我非常高兴她嫁入好人家,姐说:“我知道你的幸福将快来临。”这手花是姐姐给我的祝福。。。

这是雅慧写的Post- http://www.wretch.cc/blog/eahuiyaya&article_id=11222321

我做给姐姐的短片。。a video dedicated to my sister

24 Feb 2008, my sister got married… she is the closest person to me, the person whom i can tell her everything. On her wedding, the happiest day for most of us, it made us cried. The person whom i didn’t expect to cry was my grandma, she was so tough that she didn’t shed a tear in my grandpa’s funeral. And that day, she Cried for my sister, i know she is overjoyed. my uncles and my aunties cried too. We all love her very much…

We hugged my brother in law – lawrence, and told him we are now a family.

After the wedding, my sister passed me her bride’s bouquet. I recalled the other day when i told her i am very happy for her, and she replied “I know your happiness is coming soon”.  

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The 陈冠希Edison’s Case

我十分相信世上有简单的异性友谊。前几年,有传Cecelia与陈小春去旅行有亲密关系,当时我会觉得他们之间只是朋友而已, 并没有什么更多的事。。。现在看了这新闻后,我想他们必有暧昧关系。

至于Gillian,我有点难于置信,她给我的印象就是超纯情的, 一副处女相。。。虽然她也是人,但也要想想自己是公众人物,怎能不顾矜持的让一个滥交的男人拍裸照?

我认为Edison  他有点变态。。。 他的神情,他的举动,不再尊重他。。。

我不是一个十分保守的女人,但我认为性事是一种承诺。 如果女人可以享受和不是自己心爱的男人的性事,那世界上就没有强奸着回事了。

看了这些新闻,听了一些人的看法,我们已进入了一个没有什么道德观念的时代。。。

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我们永远想念您- 外公蔡清文

那天下午,我驾着车经过了诗里亚巴士站前的旧店,仿佛看见戴着金丝眼镜,穿着整齐的白衣衫,黑西装裤,双手往后交叉, 站在“文成号”前的外公。 那就是我们印象中的您。还记得小时候,每当放假时,就很期待到您店里边玩边工作,除了帮忙传送香烟` 气水` 腌杧果外,就在收银机前收钱。在没客人时,外公您常向我们重覆当年十九岁南下的故事,印象最深刻的就是您分不清69这两个数字。妈妈常对我们称赞一位像您这样不太识字的人可以拼出几对有意识的词句来做记货品本钱的暗号。到如今,家里大大小小还会用这名词来当暗号。

从小到大,我们最爱在外公家度过农历新年。虽然每年的节目层序都大同小异,但我们还是很期待农历新年的到来。吃完年夜饭后,外公您就会是第一位拿着一堆的红包从房间走进客厅里。“排队,排队!”。就从那一刻起,新年的气氛就布满了整个家了。

记得在1996年,我们一家人和您` 外婆` 3舅一家到新加坡玩。我们check in 酒店不久,您就力气勃勃的要急着去走街。非常熟悉Furama Hotel 地区的您,带领我们去到People’s Park 您当事跑得非常快,我们也只好加速脚步,紧紧跟随。

1998年,外公您开始生病了。看着您一天一天的消瘦,痛苦及勇敢的与病魔争斗,没有人不为您心疼。一位辛勤了一大辈子的您竟然无法无忧无虑的过下半辈子,然而您却依然保持那情切的笑容面对着我们。

相信外公您一定看得见在筹备您的葬礼时, 每一个人都非常同心协力的做每一件事,大家都想为您做最后的一件事。我想您一定感到非常心慰与骄傲。

亲爱的外公,明天是您离开我们的一周年纪念日。在这一年里,我们常常在想着您现在过的是怎样的一个生活,是否在和亲戚朋友在打麻将?还是在寻找您爱吃的老鼠粉? 我们好希望可以在梦里再次与您见面,和您谈谈那儿的生活。

外公,谢谢您带给我们美丽的童年, 谢谢您留给我们您的笑容。

 “咱俩人, 并肩撑着一把小雨伞,雨也大, 我来照顾你来照顾我你我俩人心相印”每当听到这首歌,我们都会想起当年您在台上为当时新婚的几位舅舅姨姨献唱。

我和姐姐是外公年龄最大的孙女,和外公您在一起的时间比较长, 也对外公的印象比较深也比较多。写了这篇作文,希望其他的表弟表妹们可以对外公有多一份认识, 永远记得您。

grandpa
1996, Star Cruise Singapore, 金丝眼镜,穿着整齐的白衣衫,黑西装裤 …

P/s 鸣谢明用一帆的错字改正.

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I made some cookies for CNY 2006. Angela said it smells real good and said i can sell it. Then the next thing came to our mind was Valentine’s Day coming in a week time! Within minutes, we grabbed some wrapping paper, found a bear somewhere, ribbon, and wrapped up a small little valentine’s hamper. its so cute and nice! the following day we started to market this product in our open house. then also did some eFlyers.. We targeted to make 30 of this…. at the end we closed 136 sales! Was very happy at first, but came to think about it, one hamper =10 cookies, 136 hampers = 1360 cookies.

Tat week was like a night mare, i was so worry that i can’t get the gift up. I even went home during lunch time to bake cookies! haha.. Valentine’s eve – Angela came back from Miri, Mum and Vui all ready for an OT night. we worked til 3am.. and at the end all are done! the next morning, i had all of them placed in baskets and deliver door to door. I also engaged a courier company to deliver to KB and Tutong.

P/s Special Thanks to all my frens who supported my kacang putih business!

Valentine -1
Assorted flavor Heart-shaped cookies with chocolate chips

Valentine -2
“Bear bear all line up please… we are ready to make a lot of people smile! :D”

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Will I ever learn?

After an incident happened to my dear friend, she realised what’s and who’s good for her. And i finally understood what everybody been telling me. I missed and overlooked a lot of things and people around me.

Today, i haven’t do anything but stay in my room and do nothing. this is not me. One side of me is thinking its nice to rest and do nothing. the other side of me is thinking i’m wasting my time! who on earth do nothing at home on a sunday and on a 4th day of Chinese New year??

I had a deep thought 2 nights ago. How can i think that being busy with so many things is the best thing on earth. Why am i putting so many things on my shoulder? why was i so busy that i can’t even reply her call? What is my priority?

The person whom i put the highest priority on is not here for me. I wasn’t there for the person who needed me.

That night i dreamed of myself being too busy til i didn’t attend my sister’s wedding. In my dream, i wished so much that it was a dream and i tried to wake up, but i can’t. Thanks God that it was a dream.

I told myself I’ll learn not to load things up. I’ll try to get things done asap and start a new lifestyle… But i’m thinking, will i ever learn??

P/s: Sorry to my frens for me being missing in action during this chinese new year.

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To all Chinese: Happy Chinese New Year!

To all Non Chinese: Happy Holiday!

For singles: 祝你们早日心有所鼠

For those who has your own business: 钞票鼠不完。

Gongxi

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