One of the customs in a chinese wedding is to test the patience of the Groom and his brothers before they can get the bride. The games might be childish, violent and disgusted, but its often the highlights in most of the Chinese Weddings. For my sister’s wedding, I organised a series of games for the Groom. Actually we can come out with more games, however the eldery said we have only 30 mins for the games.
1. Before the game starts, I wrote an agreement and asked the groom’s gang to read it out loud follow by the groom’s signature. The agreement said: “We, the Groom Brothers, agreed to play and follow all the games’ rules that are prepared by the Bride’s Sisters. Or else, we will use Wasabi as toothpaste to brush our teeth” We have to do this strict because most of the time they will break the rules. 准备一个合约,进门前,先叫兄弟们大声读,后新郎签个名。合约内容:”我们兄弟同意遵守新娘姐妹们安排的一切游戏规则,否则我们将用Wasabi来刷牙。”
2. 虎虎生威:I have a hula hoop placed at the door, all of them include the groom must roar loudly and jump into the hula hoop to get in to the house. 新郎及兄弟们必须虎叫一声才跳进顶在门口的呼拉圈。
3. 神秘宝箱:put a wig, a g string, a bra, a sexy lingerie and few stones into a box with a hole. Shake the box and ask the groom if he is scared of rodent. When he put his hand into the box, he will feel something hairy and he has no idea what’s in it. get him to take things out one by one and wear it. 准备一个有个小洞的箱子,把假发,丁字裤,内衣,性感睡衣和几粒石子放净箱里。先摇摇箱子再问新郎怕不怕老鼠。 当他升手进箱里摸一摸,他会很怕的,因为有毛毛的,也有软软的,还有石头的声音。叫他一样一样拿出来,穿上身上,让大家笑一笑。
4. 大肚婆的心声:get few pair of guys, for each pair, one of them standing up and one of them squatting down. The guy who is squatting down put a balloon into his partner shirt and blow up the balloon. Blow until the shirt of the standing guy is fit and tight. and tie the knob. Then the standing guy with the big balloon should do sit up for 9times. the meaning behind is for them to understand how difficult it is to be a pregnant woman. 把兄弟分成几对。一个站着,一个蹲着。 蹲着的那个要在站着的衣服底下吹气球。吹到衣服紧了, 再绑个结。站着的那个要躺下来做9 次Sit-up。
5. 解冰开门:freeze few room keys in ice. at least 3 keys, with one of them is the bride room’s key. get the brothers to use their mouth to melt the ice and get the key out to open the room. this seems to be easy, but it often make the guy’s shirt all wet. 将新娘房门锁匙及其他房门锁匙加水做成冰块。 叫兄弟用嘴巴解溶,取出锁匙开房门。兄弟全身包湿完。
Other Tips:
1. 吃屎:Make a banana boat in a portable toilet ball, and get them to eat it. Remember chocolate ice cream and bananas.. 把巧克力雪糕及香蕉放进小马桶里给兄弟们享用。
2. 冰里寻法: put a bunch of keys into a bucket of ice+water. Get them to find the right key to open the door. This is not an easy task, your hand will be misfunction very soon. 把一大堆锁匙丢进冰桶里,加水。叫兄弟找锁匙开门。这个不简单。手很快就麻了。
SJ you should help me to think! My groom don’t really have a lot of 兄弟. May be just one or two.. hahaha.. poor things.
But I would like you ladies to play trick on him only. He’s 兄弟 cannot help. Yes, I am a very evil wife!
Tips:
– Don’t make him eat stuff. Pointless! he will eat anything and can eat wasabi for fun one. Yeah my Fiance is weird !
– Don’t dirty his clothings. Very expensive custom made one! More expensive than my dress 😦 Somemore I only rent.
– He very shy one. Can make he say or sing or do weird stuff.
– He only understand English and Cantonese. But can not read chinese. *Banana*
I like the 冰里寻法, 虎虎生威, 神秘宝箱…
well, we already expect your husband to be the one kind person… if not u 2 won’t be together.
one or 2 brothers only ah? make sure they are cute, if not i will not be semangat. if they give me big angpow under table, then i will just let them in. >:)
Now u have to identify what are the things that he is scared of: lizards? spider? hairy things? chilli padi? bitter gout? lime? height? can he do sit up? play a hulahoop? pushup?
How many sisters u have? if u have a lot of sisters, then we can divide into stages of games. pls provide us ur house floor plan also, so we can plan. We are very professional one. send you a quotation later.
Wow those are some really creative and yet scary games. Thank god my wife didn’t read this before our big day. 🙂
haha… u r lucky.. any games that your wife’s sisters played that you can share here?
Yaloh very professional! hehehe.
Well I might only have 3 to 4 sisters that is agressive. (Count you and Rachel in already) The rest of the sisters may be a little shy one.
Three storey house with main gate outside and main door lol~ Floor plan ah… you ladies have to fly in on the 26 June or before loh. (26 June Wedding Eve buffet dinner party). I will be in Brunei on the 21 June to 24 June.
You have to at least let him in the main gate. Then you ladies can ensure he will not go away! The gate have to use remote control to open and close one.. lol~
(He did mention if you ladies are too hard on him. He will go away and come back an hour later. Trust me, he will do that one! Horrible husband!)
Other tips:
– He very fit one. Sit-up, push-up, hulaloop, anything physical .. is not hard for him. But I never see him using hulaloop.. hehehe.. may be can try that too.
– Sour and spicy stuff not problem for him.
– May be he might be afraid of insect. I never seen him kill or catch one. Usually I kill and catch it one. (My hobby 😛 )
Well my brothers and I were only made to dance on the stage, since we didn’t have a custom wedding. We danced to a Morning Musume song though, and it was great~
Bethany, so u leaving for KL on 24th or 25th? via air asia? can we follow so we can go penang together. During the journey, we can study ur husband, so we can plan what games to play.
OMG. speechless..
Wow… ur idea sounds cool haha.. anymore suggestion? Trying to think of games for my sis wedding kakaka…
I think you should pay a visit this very cool website where you can play free scary games .
hei..can you share with me other door games?
add me in msn..yoyomei@live.com
im going to plan it for my sister wedding
thanks
as soon as possible=]
my friend’s sis wedding…
http://www.dnmweddingfilms.com.au/
this is what they played on the guys..
hie’… sounds great…
i am going to get married on this coming november…
So, i would like to pick some games for my fiance and his gang ( as his gang is also my best friends)…
Any good suggestions?